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B.J. Meurer | National Center for Biblical Parenting speaker, coach, & guest blogger | Featured speaker at MICHN Homeschooling Conference | Guest on Her Heart & Home podcast, Redeeming the Chaos podcast,  The Homeschool Advantage podcast, The Character Corner blog, & more
What Parents Are Saying ...
"We are more sensitive to our sons' feelings and with how we communicate with them. B.J. never fails to provide great advice from a faith-based standpoint.” - John and Natalie, parents of 14 and 13 year olds
"As parents we learned how to manage our emotions so that we can help our children process the challenges before them."
- John and Becky, parents of 16, 13, and 11 year olds
“B.J. is an incredibly gifted teacher! He understands how real life and real kids operate and helps us practically solve our very daunting parenting problems.” - Phil and Laura, parents of 10, 8, and 3 year olds

Parenting Doesn’t Have to Feel Like a Battle

Some days, getting your kids to listen feels like an uphill battle.

You give direction after direction, but when they refuse, argue, or shut down, it’s exhausting.

Maybe you’ve found yourself yelling, bribing, or just doing it yourself, feeling drained, and wondering if there’s a better way.

What if there is?

What if you could give clear, heart-focused instructions your kids actually want to follow?
And what if when they don’t cooperate, you had a simple, loving 3-step response that targets their hearts and building qualities like responsibility, respect, and follow-through that last a lifetime?

It’s not just a dream. It’s Jesus’ design for your family.

Whether your child struggles with big emotions, sensory needs, or simply the daily push-pull of growing up, every heart is reachable. And you can be the parent who unlocks that connection.

If you’re ready for breakthrough moments and a family culture filled with peace, connection, and cooperation, you’re in the right place.

Welcome to Connected Cooperation.

"B.J. has such a positive, hopeful approach to dealing with the most challenging situations. We went from hopeless to hopeful. We're closer and more connected."

- Eddy and Mary Beth, grandparents of 11 and 9 year olds

Cooperation Starts Here: Your On-Demand Mini-Course for Parents Who Want to Build Cooperation and Stay Connected Even When Correcting

This isn’t just another parenting quick fix.
It’s a heart-based, biblically grounded mini-course designed to help you build genuine cooperation and connection in your family so you can lead with calm confidence, even when power struggles and defiance arise.

You’ll walk away with simple, practical tools and a proven correction process that you can start using immediately to help your kids listen, follow through, and develop responsibility and respect without exhausting battles.

What's included?

đź“š 3 On-Demand Modules
Step-by-step video lessons guiding you through building cooperation, heart-based correction, and tailoring your approach for your child’s unique needs.

🕰️ Lifetime Access
Learn at your own pace, revisit the material whenever you need a refresher or encouragement.

📝 Printable Resources
Easy-to-use guides and quick-reference tools to help you use heart-based strategies confidently.

đź’– Heart-Based Parenting Tools
Practical strategies that focus on relationship, connection, and transforming your child’s heart and not just their behavior.

Equip yourself with heart-focused tools that bring calm and cooperation to your family.

Build a home where kids listen and your connection stays strong even during correction.
Discover how to turn challenging moments into opportunities for lasting connection.

✨ More cooperation, even when kids resist
đź’Ş More confidence, even when correction feels hard
❤️ More connection, even in the toughest moments

2 Great Options to Choose From

Audio Toolkit

$19

Listen on the go and get cooperation tools that work.

  •  3 on-demand audio-based modules (MP3 format) for you to listen to at your own pace and relisten any time you need a fresh dose of inspiration

  • Printable PDF notes for making notes and processing what you learn

  • Lifetime access ... no deadlines, no pressure ... just tools ready when you need them most

  • Heart-based, practical strategies to reduce power struggles. build connection, teach responsibility, and encourage cooperation that lasts

  • Easy to listen on walks, drives, or while doing dishes
Enjoy the Audio Version Now

OR

Full Mini-Course

$49

Enjoy the full video experience and build coopoeration.

  •  3 on-demand video-based modules for you to watch at your own pace and revisit any time PLUS all of the MP3 audio versions included for flexible learning

  • Printable PDF notes and all course slides  for  helping you reflect and apply what you learn

  • Lifetime access ... no deadlines, no pressure ... just tools ready when you need them most

  • Heart-based, practical strategies to reduce power struggles. build connection, teach responsibility, and encourage cooperation that lasts

  • Perfect for parents who need clear steps and fast wins
Start the Full Mini-Course Today

"B.J.’s insight into the heart of a child is remarkable. His ability to advise parents demonstrates his command of God’s Word and discernment in a way that empowers parents to bring about change in their children in a short amount of time. All parents would benefit from anything he writes or teaches."

- Dr. Scott Turansky, Co-founder of the National Center for Biblical Parenting

Here’s What You’ll Experience

You’ll get practical strategies to strngthen your realtionship, reduce power struggles, correct with connection, and guide your kids toward lasting cooperation all with a heart-based approach.

 Click each module to expand and learn more.

You don’t need another theory-heavy parenting book or a Pinterest-perfect parenting plan.

 
You need something real that meets your family right where you are in the noise, the mess, and the sacred everyday moments.

This isn’t just about learning strategies or hearing a few parenting pep talks. 
 
It’s about how you feel as a parent, how you respond under pressure, and how you connect with your kids when it matters most.

By the end of this course, you’ll:
 

Cultivate Heartfelt Connection that Changes Heart

Build genuine, lasting bonds with your child that go beyond compliance. Help your child feel seen, heard, and valued every single day.

 

Foster Cooperation without Power Struggles

Guide your child with clarity and calm, avoiding yelling, nagging, or bribing, while encouraging willing participation.

 

Deliver Correction That Heals, Not Hurts

Use discipline to shape hearts, not just behavior, inspiring trust, respect, and lasting growth.
 
 

Apply Heart Tools that Flex for Every Child and Parent

Adapt strategies for any age, personality, or challenge, turning even tough moments into opportunities for guidance.
 
 

Build Confidence in Jesus Working Through You

Parent knowing you’re not alone. Trust His guidance, show up consistently, and watch Him work in your child’s heart through you.

Real families. Real change.

So many families are finding more connection, more calm, and more confidence when they start focusing on the hearts of their children.

"B.J. is a wonderful asset to our parenting, and has completely changed the way we parent and view our children ... He is truly a remarkable human that loves Jesus and wants parents to thrive in parenting!"

 - Daniel and Lydia, parents of 10, 8, 6, and 3 year olds

"B.J. has an expansive knowledge of different ages. He is creative in crafting ideas on how to communicate with kids, which is so helpful in establishing a peace-filled environment in anyone’s home."

- Bryan and Samantha, parents of 8, 6, and 4 year olds

How It Works

1. Make Your Purchase & Get Instant Access

Choose either the Audio Toolkit or Full Mini-Course and get access to all 3 modules and printable tools.

 

2. Start Learning on Your Schedule

Watch or listen to the modules anytime and anywhere at your pace. The tools are ready when you are.

 

3. Use What You Learn

You’ll walk away with faith-affirming, heart-based tools, printable workbooks, and a clear plan to help your family start connecting and cooperating at a deeper level now.

It’s simple, flexible, and built for busy families like yours.

Pick the option that works for you.

Enjoy the Audio Version Now
Start the Full Mini-Course Today

From My Family to Yours

Hey friend,

I created Connected Cooperation because I know what it feels like to want to parent well, love your kids deeply, and still feel stuck sometimes.

I also know what it’s like to watch Jesus bring real change, slowly, gently, in the middle of messy, ordinary family life.

This course isn’t about doing it all perfectly.

It’s about showing up, trusting Jesus, and taking one small step at a time.

I’d be honored to walk that journey with you. 

All my best,
B.J.

From One Parent to Another

Encouragement and insight from families learning to lead with connection and guide with grace.

"When you use the tools it works."

 

"You WILL see changes!"

 

"A plan that is biblically based and it directly speaks to your child's heart!"

 

"I love the idea of my children learning to do this themselves and I don't feel like I have to stand there and demand an instant heart change."

"Habits actually can change with consistency."

 

"There is improvement and God is truly working!"

 

"My husband and I are now on the same page so the kids know what is expected and we have a more peaceful home."

 

"This changes everything with how I work with my kids!"

Ready to see what this could look like in your family?

Get your copy of Connected Cooperation.  You'll be so glad you did.

Audio Toolkit

$19

Listen on the go and get cooperation tools that work.

  •  3 on-demand audio-based modules (MP3 format) for you to listen to at your own pace and relisten any time you need a fresh dose of inspiration

  • Printable PDF notes for making notes and processing what you learn

  • Lifetime access ... no deadlines, no pressure ... just tools ready when you need them most

  • Heart-based, practical strategies to reduce power struggles. build connection, teach responsibility, and encourage cooperation that lasts

  • Easy to listen on walks, drives, or while doing dishes
Enjoy the Audio Version Now

OR

Full Mini-Course

$49

Enjoy the full video experience and build coopoeration.

  •  3 on-demand video-based modules for you to watch at your own pace and revisit any time PLUS all of the MP3 audio versions included for flexible learning

  • Printable PDF notes and all course slides  for  helping you reflect and apply what you learn

  • Lifetime access ... no deadlines, no pressure ... just tools ready when you need them most

  • Heart-based, practical strategies to reduce power struggles. build connection, teach responsibility, and encourage cooperation that lasts

  • Perfect for parents who need clear steps and fast wins
Start the Full Mini-Course Today