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What would help you most right now?
Are you tired of dealing with the same misbehaviors in your kids again and again?
Do you feel like your kids might fix the behavior but not the attitude behind it?
Has all the parenting advice you've found felt either too harsh or too soft and you just want something that helps you parent the way Jesus wants you to?
Then it's time to stop second guessing yourself.
It's time to stop wondering if you're parenting "the right way".
Instead, it's time to start considering how Jesus has uniquely designed your family and how the tools He provides us to parent can help our kids have a change of heart that lasts.
It's time to find real, practical, faith-affirming, long-term solutions to the day-to-day problems and challenges you and your kids are facing in family life.
It's time to say, "Jesus, help me parent."
Nice to meet you!
Hi, I’m B.J.! I help parents learn how to use a heart-based approach to parenting to empower their children with the skills they need to not simply change behaviors but to also change their hearts.
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Grab a Parenting Resource
These popular parenting resources are a great place to start, if you’re not yet ready to jump in to 1:1 coaching or a digital parenting course.
Start Managing Emotions Better
Emotions are a gift from God and are a signal to our hearts. Help your kids and family start learning how to better manage these emotions as Jesus intends.
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Grow Closer with Your Kids
Working with our kids starts with relationships. Use this simple guide to better understand how your kid receives love and the simple, daily actions you can take in the next two weeks to start seeing change.
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Be Encouraged and Empowered in Your Parenting
Too often, parenting is a journey filled with discouragement and doubts. But Jesus offers a different message and a better hope for parents. Check out this timely message filled with inspiration and practical parenting advice for parenting in today's complex world.
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Bryan and Kaitlyn, Biblical parenting coaching clients
B.J. is a wonderful asset to our parenting and has completely changed the way we parent and view our children. He has helped us view them as brothers and sisters in Christ, rooted to bringing them up as Jesus followers and helping them have a heart change for Jesus ... B.J. IS THE BEST! He is truly a remarkable human that loves Jesus and wants parents to thrive in parenting!
Duc and Yoci, Biblical parenting coaching clients
Working with B.J. has allowed us to have a plan for a better family life. It has reprogrammed our hearts, minds, and actions when correcting our children. We don't need to rely on our experience as children, but be prayerful and asking God for help. Parenting is not for the faint of heart and I am thankful for the Biblical instruction that has been shared with us.
John and Becky, Biblical parenting coaching clients
B.J. is a master teacher who coaches parents how to partner with God in raising their children to be faithful disciples today (and tomorrow) ... Our home has become much more peaceful and loving ... We thought we were signing up for a parent coach, but God gave us a faithful, powerful, and really funny friend!
John and Natalie, Biblical parenting coaching clients
B.J. is the most awesome biblical parenting coach you will find! He is so patient, energetic, joyful, and understanding. He is a great listener and understands from both the parent's and the child's perspective. We have a very difficult teen and have brought up many challenging questions and scenarios at B.J. but he never fails to provide great advice from a biblical standpoint. He uses examples from Jesus and the Bible which are really encouraging.
Phil and Laura, Biblical parenting coaching clients
B.J. understands how real life and real kids operate and helps us practically solve our very daunting parenting problems. He has given us a structure and language to use with our very challenging ADHD son and other neurotypical children that we can really get behind and practice.
Ryan and Val, Biblical parenting coaching clients
We were pretty desperate when we started to work with BJ. Our home environment was much different than what we had envisioned or wanted. In fact, one of our kids even asked for “peace in our home” on their Christmas wish list. B.J. helped us to create and establish a routine that encourages obedience and heart-regulation for our children, which we continue to implement multiple times a day for all of our kids. Our hearts (as parents) have become more regulated and centered on Christ and as a result, we disciple our children with clear minds. God continues to bless us with peace ... we have less moments of frustration and more moments of peace. Our child is able to verbalize her feelings after going through steps of calming her heart ... Her heart is soft to our discipleship and love as a result from building clear boundaries and maintaining a gentle firmness. All praise to God!!
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