Jesus, Help Me Parent

For the Christian parent who loves their kids deeply and still feels like they're getting it wrong.

Calm, practical, heart-based guidance for navigating big emotions, hard behaviors, and everyday family struggles — with grace instead of guilt.

Maybe you've tried every strategy you could find online and nothing seems to stick. Or maybe you're not even sure where to start — you just know something feels hard, and you're tired of feeling like you're getting it wrong.

Many of the families I work with are navigating things like ADHD, anxiety, autism, adoption, learning struggles, homeschool life, sibling conflict, or constant emotional overwhelm.

No matter what your family is facing, you're in the right place.

Hi, I'm B.J. Meurer. I'm a Christian parenting coach, educator, speaker, and father of 8 who helps overwhelmed families navigate big emotions and difficult moments with calm, practical, heart-based guidance rooted in Jesus.

After nearly three decades working with children and families — both professionally and in my own home — I've experienced firsthand how much changes when families feel seen, connected, and equipped.

A little more about me

A free resource to help you get started

Your Family’s Roadmap for Navigating Big Emotions

Most parenting strategies work great — until they don't. This free guide gives your family something better than scripts for specific situations — a simple, repeatable framework you can use in any hard moment.

Through three practical steps — Notice, Pause, Make a Plan — you'll learn how to recognize what's happening emotionally, slow things down, and move forward together with your kids.

Includes a printable dashboard poster your whole family can reference.

Free. Printable. Built for real family life.

Get your free Roadmap

Ways We Can Go Deeper Together

Connected Cooperation

This is the core framework I use with many of the families I work with. Through this course and companion journal, I walk you through a practical, heart-based approach to building real cooperation with your kids — focusing on connection and heart change, not just behavior. It’s flexible enough to work with kids of all ages, stages, and needs.

Available as a self-paced course or guided journal.

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1:1 Coaching

An 8-week experience where I walk alongside you as we look honestly at what’s happening in your family and build a practical, personalized way forward. Parents often leave with clearer direction, more effective tools for real-life situations, and a renewed sense of hope in their home. You bring everything — the hard moments, the confusion, the discouragement. There’s no shame here, only support and practical next steps.

Find Me Where You Are

My longer teaching and deeper dives live on YouTube. I also share practical tools, real family moments, and faith woven into everyday parenting life across Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok.

No pressure, no performance — just honest, calm guidance for the hard moments in real homes.

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Let's Talk

Bryan and Kaitlyn, Biblical parenting coaching clients

B.J. is a wonderful asset to our parenting and has completely changed the way we parent and view our children. He has helped us view them as brothers and sisters in Christ, rooted to bringing them up as Jesus followers and helping them have a heart change for Jesus ... B.J. IS THE BEST! He is truly a remarkable human that loves Jesus and wants parents to thrive in parenting!

Duc and Yoci, Biblical parenting coaching clients

Working with B.J. has allowed us to have a plan for a better family life. It has reprogrammed our hearts, minds, and actions when correcting our children. We don't need to rely on our experience as children, but be prayerful and asking God for help. Parenting is not for the faint of heart and I am thankful for the Biblical instruction that has been shared with us.

John and Becky, Biblical parenting coaching clients

B.J. is a master teacher who coaches parents how to partner with God in raising their children to be faithful disciples today (and tomorrow) ... Our home has become much more peaceful and loving ... We thought we were signing up for a parent coach, but God gave us a faithful, powerful, and really funny friend!

John and Natalie, Biblical parenting coaching clients

B.J. is the most awesome biblical parenting coach you will find! He is so patient, energetic, joyful, and understanding. He is a great listener and understands from both the parent's and the child's perspective. We have a very difficult teen and have brought up many challenging questions and scenarios at B.J. but he never fails to provide great advice from a biblical standpoint. He uses examples from Jesus and the Bible which are really encouraging.

Phil and Laura, Biblical parenting coaching clients

B.J. understands how real life and real kids operate and helps us practically solve our very daunting parenting problems. He has given us a structure and language to use with our very challenging ADHD son and other neurotypical children that we can really get behind and practice.

Ryan and Val, Biblical parenting coaching clients

We were pretty desperate when we started to work with BJ. Our home environment was much different than what we had envisioned or wanted. In fact, one of our kids even asked for “peace in our home” on their Christmas wish list. B.J. helped us to create and establish a routine that encourages obedience and heart-regulation for our children, which we continue to implement multiple times a day for all of our kids. Our hearts (as parents) have become more regulated and centered on Christ and as a result, we disciple our children with clear minds. God continues to bless us with peace ... we have less moments of frustration and more moments of peace. Our child is able to verbalize her feelings after going through steps of calming her heart ... Her heart is soft to our discipleship and love as a result from building clear boundaries and maintaining a gentle firmness. All praise to God!!

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