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If you’re a parent looking to help your child navigate BIG emotions, then you know how hard this challenge can be in family life.

 

You might be feeling unsure about how to support your child in expressing their feelings and making sure they feel heard. It's frustrating when the things you've tried so far haven't worked, and you worry that whatever you do might invalidate their emotions or even hurt them emotionally.

 

And let's be real, dealing with those never-ending emotional outbursts, the yelling, screaming, crying and tears, constant worries, and more can really wear you down. Sometimes, we question our parenting skills and struggle with our own emotions in the process. Many families like this start to lose hope that things will ever change. But deep down, we all crave a positive shift in family life.

If this describes you, then you’re in the right place.  The time-tested, faith-affirming, and practical tools, strategies, and resources you will find inside this course along with the opportunities for community and personal coaching are the answer to many of your questions and roadblocks in family life.  Get ready for some “Ah-ha!” moments and breakthroughs in relationships in your family as I show you how to parent the hearts of your kids like Jesus wants you to and get the results you only dream of now.

By the end of this course, you will ...

  • Build stronger connections with your children through a heart-based approach to cooperation and discipline

  • Target your parenting efforts using the 7 Tools God has given us and see change at the heart level

  • Implement a 3-step correction model inspired by how God responds to us, balancing relationship and firmness

  • Respond calmly and confidently when your child doesn’t cooperate, avoiding harsh reactions and emotional overflows

  • Correct while staying connected by learning how to guide your child without damaging the relationship

  • Coach your child through BIG emotions with personalized plans that support growth and regulation

  • Navigate resistance with confidence by avoiding common pitfalls and using strategies that soften the heart

  • Balance structure and flexibility in your parenting while providing choices, redos, and a voice for your child

  • Understand emotions from a biblical lens including what they are, how they affect the heart, and how God uses them for growth

  • Lead engaging, biblically-based family nights with 8 interactive lessons that reinforce emotional growth and faith at home

"B.J.’s insight into the heart of a child is remarkable. His ability to advise parents demonstrates his command of God’s Word and discernment in a way that empowers parents to bring about change in their children in a short amount of time. All parents would benefit from anything he writes or teaches."

Dr. Scott Turansky, Co-founder of the National Center for Biblical Parenting

Here’s what you’re getting when you enroll today:

The Conquering BIG Emotions Blueprint

  • 8 Modules filled with time-tested, faith-affirming, practical parenting tools and strategies - $450 Value
  • The Conquering BIG Emotions Parent Field Guide - $25 Value
  • Cooperation parenting mini-course - $125 Value

Total Value: $600

When you add it all up, that’s a value of $600    ($1,125 for 1:1 Coaching)

But when you enroll today, you’ll get access to everything for just: $299  ($575 for 1:1 Coaching)

Enroll in The Conquering BIG Emotions Blueprint Today

1:1 COACHING

$575

(pay in full or 3 monthly payments of $199)

  • Full Course
  • Parent  Field Guide
  • 8 weekly 1:1 coaching sessions
  • Personalized support and accountability
  • Faster progress with expert guidance
  • FREE BONUS MINI-COURSE
ENROLL NOW

OR

INDEPENDENT

$299

(pay in full or 3 monthly payments of $109)

  • Full Course
  • Parent Field Guide 
  • Learn at your own pace
  • Tools and strategies you can start using right away to see positive change plus a 30 day money back guarantee
  • FREE BONUS MINI-COURSE
ENROLL NOW

"B.J. understands how real life and real kids operate and helps us practically solve our very daunting parenting problems.  He has given us a structure and language to use with our very challenging ADHD son and other neurotypical children that we can really get behind and practice."

- Phil and Laura, parents of 10, 8, and 3 year olds

"B.J. was a timely grace from God for our family.  Our home has become much more peaceful and loving.  B.J. is a master teacher who coaches parents how to partner with God in raising their children to be faithful disciples today and tomorrow."

 
- John and Becky, parents of 16, 13, and 11 year olds

"We have had MUCH fewer really, really "tough moments" which I am so thankful to the Lord for and give Him thanks!!! We still have those tough times but they happen once every couple of days to a week compared to several times a day! Praise Jesus! "

 
- Ryan and Val, parents of 9, 7, 6, and 3 year olds

What's Inside The Conquering BIG Emotions Blueprint

Module 1

Relationship Increases Cooperation

Module 1 is all about relationship.  When Jesus looks to help us change, He does it through relationship.  So this is where we start when working with our children as well.  In this module, you will work on building routines that strengthen relationship and develop more cooperation between you and your child.  Cooperation increases when both parents and children are willing to change. 

Module Highlights:

During this module, you will:

  • Learn what's happening inside the heart and conscience and how to use a heart-based approach to parenting to affect change in the life of your child
  • Introduce and practice an instruction routine that focuses on key heart qualities for building cooperation between you and your child
  • Take action on increasing positive relationship investments with your child
Module 2

Helping Your Child Get Back on Track

After working on cooperation in Module 1, Module 2 answers the next natural question, "But what do I do if my child doesn't want to cooperate?"  Every family needs a plan to help get children back on track when they struggle with cooperating.  Too often, parents don't know how to respond because they don't have a plan.  Instead parents tend to simply react to each situation without an overarching goal for heart development in their child.  This module will change that for you as you learn a 3 Step Process for responding when your child gets off track.

 

Module Highlights:

During this module, you will:

  • Understand how heart change works and the 3-step process for correction
  • Learn how to start by using words and offering opportunities for kids to try again
  • Develop a routine for helping your child calm down when emotions start to rise so they can stop, have a change of heart, and develop a plan for the future
  • Help your child move forward through the process so you can end discipline times constructively and positively
  • Know how and when to use consequences to help further deepen heart change in your child
Module 3

Even When We're Correcting, We're Connecting

Helping your child get back on track can be very challenging, and so Module 3 allows you time to dive deeper into the concepts of Module 2  while adding on some important reminders and new skills.  If we want to truly see heart change in our children, then we must genuinely work with our children during challenging times like Jesus works with us.  This means that we maintain relationship.  It means we model what we expect in terms of our own emotional regulation.  It means we look to develop routines in the correction process that focus on making plans for success for the future rather than dwelling on past mistakes and struggles.

Module Highlights:

During this module, you will:

  • Revisit the positive conclusion routine for how to end discipline times effectively and positively
  • Develop additional strategies to help your child with big emotions
  • Introduce the concept of Honor to your child and create opportunities to strengthen relationship through Honor
Module 4

Working Through BIG Emotions

Module 4 focuses on understanding emotions: what they are, why God gave them to us, and how they impact the heart and body. Three big emotions many children struggle with are feeling angry, sad, and anxious. We will talk about what these are and some Biblical solutions to each of them. This module is designed to develop a deeper understanding of emotions in parents so that you can better empathize with and develop strategies for your child's challenges of navigating big emotions.

Module Highlights:

During this module, you will:

  • Learn what emotions are, why we have them, and how to impact the heart
  • Develop strategies for helping your child with the big three emotions of anger, anxiety, and sadness
  • Partner with your child for developing more specific plans for addressing challenges your child faces including challenges with big emotions
Module 5

Developing Personalized Plans for Success

Our children tend to have specific situations and challenges where they struggle with specific emotions.  They need our leadership and partnership in helping them develop personalized plans for success for when these situations arise.  Our children also need help practicing and revising these plans since it usually takes several plans to finally find the one that works for our child.  It's like going on a treasure hunt.  The keys to finding success though are sticking with it and inviting Jesus into the process. 

Module Highlights:

During this module, you will:

  • Learn how to come alongside your child to support them in facing specific situations and challenges
  • Choose one challenge or situation where your child struggles with emotions
  • Meet with your child to create a plan for success that includes a variety of strategies
  • Teach your child specific skills needed to make the plan a success
  • Partner with your child to act on the plan when challenges arise
  • Offer feedback and coaching along the way
Module 6

Giving Voice and Resolving Conflicts

While giving children voice is woven into the tools and strategies you find throughout this course, Module 6 specifically focuses on how to appropriately provide a space for your child's voice and develop a flexible stance in parenting.  This module also focuses on what Jesus calls us to do when we struggle with our own emotions or make a mistake in our parenting.   

Module Highlights:

During this module, you will:

  • Recognize that there are lots of good ways to parent and that specific parenting situations may have multiple good options for how to handle them
  • Develop skills in providing space for your child's voice, offering choices appropriately, and maintaining a flexible stance in parenting
  • Commit to parenting with integrity by learning how to identify parenting triggers, develop better responses, and apologize and seek forgiveness when you make mistakes in your parenting 
Module 7

Addressing Resistance

Module 7 addresses how to handle resistance in your child's heart.  Sometimes a child is resistant to change .  Other times, a child can struggle when they need to be told "No".  These are often very challenging moments in family life.  They can really wear a parent down if they crop up often and are met with big emotions from the child.  But there are some important tools and responses we can develop that over the long term will bring a better response and lasting change.

Module Highlights:

During this module, you will:

  • Learn why limits and boundaries are important to heart development
  • Avoid specific parenting pitfalls when your child struggles with resistance
  • Practice specific strategies for if your child struggles with emotions when they are told "No"
Module 8

Working Towards Long Term Success

Long term success requires  a long term commitment to change.  Module 8 focuses on celebrating successes, making found solutions a part of the new norm, and continuing the process of change in our children and ourselves.   

Module Highlights:

During this module, you will:

  • Understand how to build internal motivation using everyday interactions in family life
  • Begin developing character in your child using cues to signal your child's conscience
  • Develop ongoing reflective parenting habits and practices that allow you to commit to a heart-based approach to parenting for the long term

Here's what you get when you enroll today:

 

The Conquering BIG Emotions Blueprint


A $600 value ($1,125 value for 1:1 Coaching) 
  • 8 Modules Packed with Practical Heart-based Parenting Tools That Actually Work

    Follow B.J. as he leads you step-by-step through the practical heart-based tools and strategies that you can start implementing right away so you can see change that lasts because you're targeting your parenting on the heart work your child need

 

  • Strengthen Relationships and Cooperation in Family Life 

    Learn how to build closeness with your child and implement a simple instruction routine that develops cooperation, responsiveness, responsibility, thoroughness, and accountability in the heart of your child

 

  • Know How to Touch Your Child's Heart with a Correction  Plan That Works

    Develop a 3-step response for when your child needs correction that provides them with opportunities to correct behavior, finds ways to help your child manage emotions, ends discipline times in positive and constructive ways, and helps you know how and when to use consequences 

 

  • Build Capacity in Yourself and Your Child to Handle BIG Emotions and Develop Plans for Success for the Future

    Learn what emotions are, how they work with the heart, and God's plan for how to use them in life so that you can develop personalized, strategic plans for success with your child to tackle challenging situations that they face in everyday life 

 

  • Learn How to Adapt Everything to Meet Your Child's Unique Needs

    Explore how you can adapt the tools and strategies you learn to meet the unique needs and challenges facing  your child so you can support your child the way they need while pointing them to Jesus in their daily interactions

Plus These Bonuses to Help You Actually Put This into Practice in Your Family

 

Bonus #1

The Conquering BIG Emotions Parent Field Guide 

This course is a journey: for you, your child, and your family.  This parent field guide offers you devotions focused on the content of the course, a place to journal your experiences on this journey, inspirational success stories from other parents who have traveled this journey before, and weekly directions to have your own family night that encourages your whole family to grow closer to Jesus and each other.

(A $25 Value)

What You’ll Get:

  • Complete printable of The Conquering BIG Emotions Parent Field Guide 
  • Directions for fun and interactive weekly family night devotions for each week of the course
  • Parent devotional and journal that aligns with the content of each week
Bonus #2

Get Your Kids to Listen … and Know What to Do When They Don’t mini-course

This super bonus is only for those who enroll in Group Coaching.  When working on the heart of a child, it is helpful to start with some foundational family cycles that all families need to have in place.  Families need some routines and rituals as they relate to getting things done and what to do when life gets off track.  When these two cycles are established in family life, they help soften the heart of a child to the working of the Holy Spirit in many areas of life so we can see change that lasts.

(A $125 Value)

What You’ll Get:

  • Complete access to the Get Your Kids to Listen … and Know What to When They Don’t mini-course
  • Printable notes guide
  • All related support documents for working with your children

Here’s what you’re getting when you enroll today:

The Conquering BIG Emotions Blueprint

  • 8 Modules filled with time-tested, faith-affirming, practical parenting tools and strategies - $450 Value
  • The Conquering BIG Emotions Parent Field Guide - $25 Value
  • Cooperation parenting mini-course - $125 Value

Total Value: $600

When you add it all up, that’s a value of $600    ($1,125 for 1:1 Coaching)

But when you enroll today, you’ll get access to everything for just: $299  ($575 for 1:1 Coaching)

Enroll in The Conquering BIG Emotions Blueprint Today

1:1 COACHING

$575

(pay in full or 3 monthly payments of $199)

  • Full Course
  • Parent  Field Guide
  • 8 weekly 1:1 coaching sessions
  • Personalized support and accountability
  • Faster progress with expert guidance
  • FREE BONUS MINI-COURSE
ENROLL NOW

OR

INDEPENDENT

$299

(pay in full or 3 monthly payments of $109)

  • Full Course
  • Parent Field Guide 
  • Learn at your own pace
  • Tools and strategies you can start using right away to see positive change plus a 30 day money back guarantee
  • FREE BONUS MINI-COURSE
ENROLL NOW

Your Peace-of-Mind Guarantee

I’m confident that Jesus wants to see real change in your children and family even more than you or I do.  He longs to see your family life the life He dreams for you.

I also know that the modules and resources I’ve created for you have worked time and time again. When parents put these tools into practice, real change happens.

I want you to feel supported and confident as you take this step.


✨ For Independent Study:

You’re protected by a 30-day money-back guarantee. If you complete the course, show me your work, and don’t see the kinds of changes I’ve outlined, I’ll refund your money. Every family is unique, but the tools work when you use them and I want this to be a no-risk decision for you.


🙋‍♀️ For 1:1 Coaching:

This package includes 8 weeks of private coaching that begins shortly after enrollment, so it is non-refundable once your first coaching session is completed.

That said, I want you to know I’ve worked with so many families who came to me feeling completely stuck and discouraged. We created a plan, walked it out step by step, and they saw transformation they never thought possible. That’s what I want for you, too.

You’re not doing this alone. I’ll be right there with you to troubleshoot, adjust, and support you every step of the way until things really start to change.

Frequently Asked Questions

Here are some questions others are asking before enrolling in The Conquering BIG Emotions Blueprint

Here’s what you’re getting when you enroll today:

The Conquering BIG Emotions Blueprint

  • 8 Modules filled with time-tested, faith-affirming, practical parenting tools and strategies - $450 Value
  • The Conquering BIG Emotions Parent Field Guide - $25 Value
  • Cooperation parenting mini-course - $125 Value

Total Value: $600

When you add it all up, that’s a value of $600    ($1,125 for 1:1 Coaching)

But when you enroll today, you’ll get access to everything for just: $299  ($575 for 1:1 Coaching)

Enroll in The Conquering BIG Emotions Blueprint Today

1:1 COACHING

$575

(pay in full or 3 monthly payments of $199)

  • Full Course
  • Parent  Field Guide
  • 8 weekly 1:1 coaching sessions
  • Personalized support and accountability
  • Faster progress with expert guidance
  • FREE BONUS MINI-COURSE
ENROLL NOW

OR

INDEPENDENT

$299

(pay in full or 3 monthly payments of $109)

  • Full Course
  • Parent Field Guide 
  • Learn at your own pace
  • Tools and strategies you can start using right away to see positive change plus a 30 day money back guarantee
  • FREE BONUS MINI-COURSE
ENROLL NOW

"Parenting from a heart-based approach is a wonderful concept but it takes intentionality and knowledge ... so the coaching helped to know what that practically looked like day to day with my kids.  I learned a lot about helping my kids regulate their own emotions and to encourage self-regulation in how I parented."

 

I have learned a lot in the 8 weeks of coaching but one thing that sticks out in my mind is the effect of emotions. I realized that way too often I was pulled into the arena.  My daughter responds more positively in our "tough moments" when I am under control and not acting out of an emotional response. I also find our family is more effective at communicating, both ways now.

"We saw more emotional regulation from our daughter, and she is challenging herself to be proactive with her emotions.  There is improvement, and God is truly working.  We also learned that different strategies help each child to grow in character.  B.J. helped us navigate different approaches and to also accept God's grace in this process."

 

Still thinking about it?

 

The Conquering BIG Emotions Blueprint 

is PERFECT for you if…

  1. You have a family with at least one child who struggles with big emotions, and you want practical tools now that also build a strong foundation for the future

  2. You have a child who frequently melts down and you feel like you’re constantly walking on eggshells, trying not to “set them off”

  3. You’re parenting a child who struggles with anger, anxiety, or sadness and you're looking for real-life solutions that complement therapy and help your child build emotional resilience

  4. You’re raising a tween or teen who reacts emotionally, withdraws from family connection, or struggles to manage their inner world

  5. You want to teach your child how to express emotions in a healthy way with peace and respect instead of the hurtful patterns that damage relationships

  6. You sometimes wonder, “Am I doing something wrong?” or feel guilty for thinking, “Why is this so hard?” and you long for hope and a way forward

  7. You’re tired of conflicting parenting advice and just want the best, faith-aligned, proven tools that reach your child’s heart, not just their behavior

  8. You struggle with your own emotions as a parent, feel guilty for not modeling what you expect, and want to change the momentum in your relationship

  9. You’d love personalized support to make sure you're applying new parenting strategies in a way that fits your family and feels right

  10. You’re ready to go from feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, and exhausted to feeling focused, positive, and empowered in your parenting

  11. You’re a natural learner and hard worker willing to show up, put in the effort, and build the family you’ve always dreamed of

I can’t wait for you to join! 

If you made it this far down this webpage, then I know you want the real deal.  You don’t want to waste time with another set of parenting tips and ideas that sound great on paper but don’t work in your family when you try them out.  

After many years using the principles, tools, and strategies of a heart-based approach to parenting with my own 8 children, I can honestly say that this stuff works!  And I haven’t just seen it with my own children.  I’ve seen it with other families (just like yours) as I’ve worked with them as a Biblical parenting coach and presenter.  

I’ve gotten to see family after family come to me feeling overwhelmed and defeated and then watch Jesus demonstrate His faithfulness.  I worked with these families, and over time we saw true transformation in their children and families.  

Yes, it meant putting in some hard work and time up front, and yes, families working with children who have BIG emotions have tended to find it takes a bit longer to see lasting change, but after 8 weeks these parents have a stronger relationships with their children, some positive momentum in family life, and a whole host of heart-based parenting tools to continue using.  Best of all, these families have one other thing that keeps them moving in the right direction: restored hope.

So when you’re ready, click that enroll button and join me.

All my best,

B.J.

Enroll in The Conquering BIG Emotions Blueprint Today

1:1 COACHING

$575

(pay in full or 3 monthly payments of $199)

  • Full Course
  • Parent  Field Guide
  • 8 weekly 1:1 coaching sessions
  • Personalized support and accountability
  • Faster progress with expert guidance
  • FREE BONUS MINI-COURSE
ENROLL NOW

OR

INDEPENDENT

$299

(pay in full or 3 monthly payments of $109)

  • Full Course
  • Parent Field Guide 
  • Learn at your own pace
  • Tools and strategies you can start using right away to see positive change plus a 30 day money back guarantee
  • FREE BONUS MINI-COURSE
ENROLL NOW